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Dad won't use computers. How can I get him online?

Not everyone wants to go online. While you may understand the numerous benefits and be capable of handling the drawbacks, it appears that your enthusiasm for the digital world fails to inspire someone close to you to make the move.

There can be several reasons why people don’t want to go online. Some people may find that connecting to the internet is too expensive (although there are some initiatives that can help with this).

Security issues also play a significant role in their reluctance. Worries about online privacy, identity theft, and scams create a sense of vulnerability that discourages them from taking the plunge.

Poor eyesight or other physical limitations may make it difficult for them to navigate websites, read small text, or operate digital devices effectively. These practical obstacles can create a sense of frustration and fear of not being able to adapt to the online environment.

Furthermore, some individuals may lack confidence in their ability to learn the necessary skills. They may feel overwhelmed by the vastness of the digital world or doubt their own capacity to grasp new technologies. This self-doubt can hold them back from embracing the digital realm.

In some cases, it's simply a matter of disinterest. Not everyone finds the online world appealing or relevant to their lives. They may have different hobbies, interests, or priorities that occupy their time and attention, making them less inclined to explore the digital landscape.

Timing also plays a role. Sometimes, individuals may not be ready to make the transition to the online world at a particular point in their lives. It could be due to personal circumstances, lack of motivation, or other pressing concerns. Respecting their decision and allowing them to proceed at their own pace is crucial in maintaining a healthy relationship.

While it may be disappointing to see someone close to you resist the digital revolution, it's important to let go and respect their choices. However, it's equally important to keep an open mind and be prepared to offer assistance if they express interest in going online in the future. Often, when older individuals observe their friends or peers acquiring digital skills and reaping the benefits, it instils a sense of confidence and curiosity within them. They might be inspired to give it a try themselves, and your support and guidance can make a significant difference in their journey.

Remember, patience and understanding can go a long way in encouraging someone to explore the digital world. By fostering an environment of trust and providing reassurance, you can help alleviate their concerns and create opportunities for them to experience the transformative power of the online realm.

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Updated: 8 Feb 2024
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